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  • Will You Leave a Legacy of Joy?

    Ring Those Bells

    My mom had an accidental collection of bells. Over the years it grew as she picked one up here and there on her travels, or as others contributed to it with gifts. There were bells of porcelain, crystal, and brass in a variety of designs and colors. When the shelf got over-run, they spread to the top of the china cabinet. The joy was growing.

    Our little ones loved looking at the pretty bells every time we visited their grandparents over the years and getting the privilege of ringing them once in a while.

    Life, Worship, Death

    Bells have long symbolized life and the gathering of God’s people. They ring for worship, for weddings, and as families usher people to their final resting places. There’s something uniquely special about the ringing of a bell.

    Piercing the Silence

    I love that bells remind me of my mom. It’s not only because of her collection but the way bells pierce silence with joy. My mom was like that. She could change the tone of a room with her laugh and pierce the silence with her warm smile. Though her life held many challenges for her, she was consistently known for her radiance. She exemplified what it means to leave a legacy of joy.

    But may the righteous be glad

        and rejoice before God;

        may they be happy and joyful.

    Psalm 68:3

    Different Kinds of Bells

    This past year held several different kinds of bells for my mom:

    • In 2020 she hesitantly used a bell to call for help in the middle of the night.
    • In 2020 she joyfully rang the bell to signify completion of her cancer treatments.
    • And late in 2020 the bells rang as she opened her eyes in Heaven.

    And whether the bells signified her vulnerability or her victory, they all let joy loose. Because joy is found in both places as we lean into Jesus’ strength and the people who love us. Sorrow and joy collide in dependence on Christ and His people. And joy spills out like the peal of a bell when we share our need and our gratitude.

    My mom's bell. She wanted to leave a legacy of joy

    Leave a Legacy of Joy

    I tucked this sweet bell from mom’s collection into my suitcase when I returned home, mourning her death but celebrating her beautiful life and the new freedom she’d found. And every once in a while I ring it to remind me of her radiance.

    I want to continue to ring her legacy of joy.

    What about you?

    Do you ever think about what kind of legacy you are leaving? Have you decided to be intentional on a daily basis to leave a legacy of joy or of something else? I’d love to hear about it – tell us in the comments!

    Elizabeth JOY

  • How Can I Leave a Legacy Today?

    How can I leave a legacy today?

    I have two questions I’ve learned to ask myself:

    • Am I loving well?
    • How can I leave a legacy today?

    My mom exemplified these questions for me. And with her passing just a few days ago it is becoming even more evident that she loved well. The stories people are sharing are building a consistent, radiant picture of who she was to everyone.

    Sacred Moments

    She saw her daily activities and conversations as sacred moments. She saw interactions with people as divine appointments, and really SAW people. My mother showed people value, dignity, worth, and her intentional living changed us.

    I celebrate my sweet mother today. I celebrate the lives she touched. I cherish that in her quiet kindness, she changed the world around her by helping people hope, and then they turned around to inspire others toward hope and joy too.

    What a beautiful legacy.

    Many people can look back and see the legacy left for them. Others can’t. But we each have the opportunity to start fresh and choose to leave our own.

    My mother gave me a heavenly perspective. She was my equalizer. She gave me eyes to see the difference between what carries temporal significance and what carries eternal worth. I might have shrugged and hem-hawed while learning it, but looking back I now see how my mom taught me discernment.

    David Green

    Are you ready to ask yourself those questions?

    • Am I loving well?
    • How can I leave a legacy today?

    Elizabeth JOY

  • The kindness of wrapping people in prayer

    Wrapping people in prayer

    Every stitch of this shawl was knit as a prayer was breathed for the one who would one day wear it on his or her lap or shoulders.

    My mother’s faithfulness over many years to lead a ministry that cares for people in their deepest points of need is yet another reason her life inspires me.

    Prayer shawls

    She infused hundreds of carefully handcrafted shawls with prayers and delivered them to the lonely, the sick, the grieving, and the dying.

    God’s creativity was given legs in Kingdom life.

    Wrapping my mom in prayer

    This shawl has stayed by my mom’s side through a hard year. It was a year of diagnosis, waiting, treatment, more waiting, setbacks, disappointing news, rallying, and decline.

    And like my beautiful mother, it has continually brought a sense of comfort. It is a reminder that God’s people hold each other up at all times in prayer and steady support.

    It is one way she worshiped in spirit and in truth.

    Faithful care

    We aren’t designed to journey alone. And my mom’s life of faithful care for others knit that into the very fabric of my being, the same way she patiently and prayerfully knit it with yarn.

    As her own earthly journey nears its end, I pray I will remain faithful to her legacy as long as I have breath.

    How are you wrapping people in prayer?

    Elizabeth JOY