Author: Elizabeth Joy

  • 7 Ways to Practice Joy in Everyday Life

    Joy is something we grow into with intention and grace.

    It forms as we learn to live awake to God’s presence in our everyday lives.

    And joy deepens when we welcome Jesus into our moments — both sacred and ordinary.

    It is available within the lives we’re already living.

    And joy lets loose to those around us.

    As we learn to notice God and allow His nearness to shape the rhythm of our days, joy begins to take root naturally.

    People who want to let joy loose don’t wait for someday.
    They practice joy — gently, faithfully, and in step with Jesus.

    Below are seven simple ways to begin practicing joy right where you are.

    Joy grows through daily rhythms with Jesus. Discover 7 ways to practice joy in everyday life.

    1. Begin the Day With Awareness

    “This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” — Psalm 118:24

    Each morning offers a fresh invitation to recognize God’s presence.

    When we pause long enough to acknowledge Him at the start of the day, joy has space to grow before anything else asks for our attention.

    Awareness doesn’t require extra time — only intention.

    • A quiet breath.
    • A whispered prayer.
    • A moment of gratitude.

    These small beginnings gently anchor our hearts in joy.

    Joy practice:
    Before reaching for your phone, take three slow breaths and thank God for one gift you notice right away — light, rest, breath, or His nearness.


    2. Let Gratitude Shape Your Attention

    “Give thanks in all circumstances.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18

    Gratitude has a beautiful way of opening our eyes.

    As we practice thanksgiving, our awareness expands, and our hearts become more receptive to joy.

    Gratitude doesn’t need to be elaborate. It grows in honesty and simplicity — noticing what God is already doing and receiving His gifts with openness.

    Over time, gratitude becomes a rhythm that steadies our emotions and strengthens our joy.

    Joy practice:

    • Write down three things you’re thankful for today.
    • Offer them back to God in prayer, trusting that He delights in your noticing.

    A Thankfulness Challenge

    I remember discovering Ann Voskamp’s book*, 1000 Gifts, back in 2012.

    It was one of the most revolutionary books I’d read.

    Her writing opened my eyes to the power of gratitude.
    How being thankful always precedes miracles.

    I challenge you to read it.
    And I dare you to set out to name 1000 gifts.


    See what happens.


    3. Invite Jesus Into Ordinary Moments

    “Surely I am with you always.” — Matthew 28:20

    Jesus walks with us through every part of our day.

    Joy grows as we welcome Him into common moments — driving, cooking, working, resting, and transitioning between tasks.

    And when we acknowledge His companionship, daily life becomes a place of connection rather than obligation.

    Nothing is too small to include Him.

    Joy practice:

    Choose one ordinary activity today and quietly invite Jesus into it:

    • Walk with me.
    • Sit with me.
    • Guide me here.

    4. Move Your Body With Gratitude

    “Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit.” — 1 Corinthians 6:19

    We can experience joy through our whole selves — body, mind, and spirit.

    Gentle movement can renew energy, release tension, and help us reconnect with the life God has placed within us.

    Movement becomes joyful when it’s received as care rather than performance.

    A stretch.
    A walk.
    A moment outside.

    These acts can become prayers of thanksgiving.

    Joy practice:

    • Move your body today in a way that feels supportive and kind.
    • Offer that movement to God as an act of gratitude.
    Woman running as an act of gratitude and closeness with God, letting joy loose

    5. Practice Presence With Others

    “Where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” — Matthew 18:20

    Joy grows even stronger through connection.

    When we offer our presence — attentive, unrushed, and open — love has space to deepen.

    A shared laugh, a meaningful conversation, or a simple moment of listening can become a holy exchange when offered with care.

    Presence nurtures joy in both the giver and the receiver. And there is no connection greater than that between brothers and sisters in God’s family.

    Staying Awake to His Presence

    In my life, this often looks as simple as keeping my phone turned facedown when I’m with someone else, and looking for where the Lord is at work in our conversation.

    When I see Him moving, I acknowledge Him. Staying present in the moment with a friend and identifying God’s presence with us helps a normal conversation become an act of worship.

    Joy practice:

    • Choose one interaction today where you offer your full attention as an expression of love.
    • Look for ways to steer your conversation towards Jesus.

    6. Welcome Small Moments of Delight

    “He has made everything beautiful in its time.” — Ecclesiastes 3:11

    God weaves delight throughout creation.

    Joy often arrives quietly — through beauty, creativity, warmth, and rest.

    And when we receive these moments without rushing past them, our hearts soften, and joy settles in naturally.

    Delight is not distraction.
    It is recognition of God’s beauty.

    Joy practice:

    • Pause today to enjoy one small moment — a warm drink, sunlight, music, color, or stillness.
    • Welcome God into it.

    7. Close the Day With Reflection and Rest

    “In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety.” — Psalm 4:8

    Evenings offer a sacred pause.

    As we reflect on the day with God, joy strengthens through remembrance and trust.

    Noticing where He met you and releasing tomorrow into His care allows peace to settle gently over your heart.

    Rest itself becomes an act of worship.

    Joy practice:
    Before bed, reflect on two simple questions:

    • Where did I notice God today?
    • What can I place back into His hands tonight?

    Then rest, trusting His faithfulness.


    Joy Grows Through Practice

    Joy is something we can return to — again and again.

    As we practice awareness, gratitude, presence, movement, connection, delight, and rest, joy weaves itself quietly into our lives.

    Not through striving, but simply through noticing.

    And when we focus on noticing God, joy naturally follows.


    Elizabeth Joy

    *Occasionally, I link to resources that have helped me in my joy journey. As an Amazon Affiliate, I may earn a small commission if you choose to purchase this item.

  • When Faith and Emotions Meet

    There are moments in life when faith feels strong — and emotions feel anything but.

    You love Jesus.
    You trust God.
    And yet… you still feel anxious, overwhelmed, discouraged, or emotionally worn thin.

    For many believers, this tension creates confusion. We wonder:

    • If my faith is real, why do I still feel this way?
    • Shouldn’t trusting God make my emotions easier?
    • Am I doing something wrong if I need help?

    But Scripture never presents faith and emotions as enemies.

    Instead, the Bible shows us something far more honest and hopeful:

    Faith and emotions were always meant to meet — not compete.


    Faith Was Never Meant to Bypass Your Emotions

    Throughout Scripture, we see faithful people experiencing the full range of human emotion.

    • David poured out fear, anger, grief, and hope in the Psalms.
    • Elijah battled exhaustion and despair after spiritual victory.
    • Hannah wept deeply before the Lord.
    • Even Jesus felt sorrow, anguish, compassion, and grief.

    Faith doesn’t eliminate emotions.
    Faith gives us a place to bring them.

    God is not threatened by your feelings — and He does not ask you to pretend they aren’t there.


    When my joy was stuck…

    I felt deeply confused in the months and years surrounding the birth of my three kids. I was brand new to my faith, and I had somehow picked up a few lies fairly quickly.

    Lies like:
    – Christians are happy and put together – don’t let them know.
    – God is looking down on you for how out of sorts you are.
    – You need to get yourself in shape to approach Him.

    But the truth was, I was going through postpartum depression and didn’t know it. My tumultuous emotions weren’t evidence that I was a less-than-believer nor that I had something to hide.

    They were simply the result of my hormones in upheaval and evidence of mastitis and sleeplessness.

    And while I thought I needed to stuff down all the anger, resentment, and fear I felt, I was really ignoring the invitation to open up to others and draw near to Jesus.


    Why Ignoring Emotions Doesn’t Produce Joy

    Many of us learned — intentionally or not — that “being strong in faith” meant staying positive at all costs.

    So we learned to:

    • minimize pain
    • quote Scripture instead of processing feelings
    • rush ourselves toward gratitude
    • hide what felt messy or complicated

    But buried emotions don’t disappear.
    They surface later as anxiety, burnout, resentment, numbness, or physical exhaustion.

    Joy doesn’t grow through avoidance.
    Joy grows through honesty — anchored in Jesus.

    When faith and emotions meet, we begin to experience healing that is both spiritual and emotional.


    The Mountains

    Even though my hormones eventually began to resolve through intentional natural wellness habits and time, I really wasn’t out of the woods of joylessness.

    Because life, right?

    I ran into a mountain that felt insurmountable about a decade ago. It looked like burnout and breakdown. Because that’s what one of our kids was experiencing, and we felt helpless.

    And truth be told, that mountain only grew over the next four years as we hit crisis upon crisis within our family.

    Despair set in.

    God had guided me to create this blog—Joy Let Loose—and I was struggling to find it myself. Here I was, writing continual posts about letting the joy of the Lord strengthen us, and I was in a pit.

    How I needed a breakthrough.

    I’m tearful looking back. Because my body still remembers the pain.

    And because Jesus was so kind to keep calling me toward His JOY.


    Emotional Wellness Is Not a Lack of Faith

    Let’s say this clearly:

    Needing emotional support does not mean your faith is weak.

    Mental and emotional wellness are part of how God designed us — mind, body, and spirit working together.

    That’s why things like:

    • Christian counseling
    • professional therapy
    • trauma-informed care
    • emotional skill building

    are not replacements for faith — they are often answers to prayer.

    If this is something you’ve wrestled with, I want to gently encourage you.

    God frequently heals through community, wisdom, trained professionals, and tools — not only through moments at the altar.


    What Happens When Faith and Emotions Work Together

    When faith and emotional wellness meet, something beautiful begins to happen.

    You learn to:

    • pray honestly instead of perfectly
    • name emotions without being ruled by them
    • renew your mind with truth and compassion
    • respond instead of react
    • experience joy that’s resilient, not fragile

    This is not about fixing yourself.

    It’s about forming a life rooted in Christ that can hold real emotion.


    Beauty From Ashes

    As I look back on the depth of confusion I felt in those years with babies and young children, and on the kind invitation of God toward Therapy, EMDR, and healthy healing practices in the literal crisis season, I’m so grateful.

    Because He walked so patiently with me as I began to heal, and joy emerged.

    And because He prepared me to handle new mountains—like a pandemic, my mother’s illness and death, and the new season of empty-nesting—differently. The JOY of the Lord became my STRENGTH.

    He helped me form new habits, walk in vulnerability with others, and rely on Him when pain was persistent.


    Practical Tools for When Emotions Feel Heavy

    Here are gentle, faith-anchored practices you can begin using right away:

    1. Name What You’re Feeling

    Before you correct an emotion with truth, acknowledge it.

    “Lord, I feel anxious.”
    “God, I feel disappointed.”
    “Jesus, I feel overwhelmed.”

    Naming emotions reduces their intensity and invites God into honesty.


    2. Let Scripture Meet You — Not Muzzle You

    Instead of using Scripture to silence emotions, use it to anchor them.

    Try pairing feelings with truth:

    • “I feel afraid — God is my refuge.” (Psalm 46:1)
    • “I feel weary — Jesus invites me to rest.” (Matthew 11:28–30)
    • “I feel uncertain — God orders my steps.” (Psalm 37:23)

    Truth becomes comfort, not correction.


    3. Build Rhythms That Support Emotional Health

    Joy grows through daily practices, not emotional pressure.

    Simple rhythms might include:

    • consistent prayer that includes listening
    • journaling emotions before God
    • movement and rest
    • time outdoors
    • healthy boundaries
    • wise counsel and therapy when needed

    These are not “extra.”
    These rhythms are stewardship.


    4. Remember: Healing Is Often Layered

    Spiritual growth and emotional healing rarely happen all at once. Hear that today.

    Because you are being formed. And formation and healing take time, presence, and patience.

    Often God heals:

    • through process
    • through awareness
    • through support
    • through time

    Grace meets you every step of the way.


    A Faith That Holds the Whole You

    When faith and emotions meet, joy becomes deeper — not louder.

    You stop striving to feel happy
    and begin learning how to live anchored.

    And you discover that:

    • faith doesn’t demand emotional perfection
    • joy doesn’t deny pain
    • healing doesn’t threaten belief

    Instead, Jesus meets you in the middle of it all.

    Not after you calm down.
    Or once you’ve figured it out.
    And not when your emotions behave.

    Right where you are.


    If you’re longing for joy that feels steady, honest, and rooted — not forced — you’re in the right place.

    This is what it means to let JOY loose.

    Praying for you on your joy journey.

    Elizabeth Joy

  • Building a Life Rooted in Christ

    Building a Life Rooted in Christ

    There comes a moment in every faith journey when something shifts.

    Belief is no longer the question. A deeper longing begins to surface. We want our lives to feel grounded, steady, and anchored in Christ.

    Rooted.

    Open Bible resting on a wooden table outdoors with a dirt-covered gardening glove beside it, symbolizing a life rooted in Christ and everyday faith.

    When life brings change or uncertainty, strong roots provide stability. They allow growth to continue beneath the surface and keep us anchored through every season.

    If you sense God inviting you toward deeper spiritual grounding, that desire is not accidental. It is often the beginning of transformation.


    Why Being Rooted in Christ Matters

    Spiritual roots determine how we grow.

    A rooted life is not defined by the absence of struggle, but by the presence of stability. When faith runs deep, circumstances have less power to shake our foundation.

    Rootedness shapes how we respond to pressure, how we make decisions, and how we walk through joy and difficulty.

    -Depth brings resilience.
    -Connection brings clarity.
    -Consistency nurtures growth.

    Faith grounded in Christ allows spiritual maturity to develop over time rather than fluctuating with emotion or circumstance.


    What Scripture Teaches About Spiritual Roots

    The Bible speaks often about growth that begins beneath the surface.

    “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.”
    — Colossians 2:6–7

    Paul reminds believers that the same way we begin our walk with Jesus is the way we continue it. Growth flows from relationship, not performance.

    Jesus reinforces this truth in Matthew 13 when He describes seed that begins to grow but lacks depth. Without developed roots, growth cannot endure.

    Depth sustains faith.

    Strong roots allow spiritual fruit to emerge in its proper time and remain through every season.


    Abiding in Christ as the Foundation for Growth

    Jesus describes spiritual maturity as the result of connection.

    “Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine.”
    — John 15:4

    A thriving spiritual life flows from abiding.

    When we remain connected to Christ, growth occurs naturally. Joy, peace, wisdom, and endurance develop as the result of closeness rather than striving.

    Connection precedes fruit.

    Spiritual health begins below the surface, cultivated through ongoing relationship with Jesus.


    Daily Rhythms That Strengthen Spiritual Roots

    Rooted faith grows through intentional patterns practiced consistently over time.

    These rhythms do not need to be complicated. Faith deepens through simple habits that keep our hearts anchored in Christ.


    Time in God’s Presence

    Presence strengthens relationship.

    This may include morning prayer, Scripture reading during the day, worship in ordinary moments, or quiet reflection woven into daily routines.

    Several years ago, I launched a Morning Joy Challenge. It echoes my heart to consistently start each day aware of the joy of the Lord.

    Consistency nurtures intimacy, and intimacy strengthens roots.


    Anchoring Life in God’s Word

    A regular relationship with Scripture provides clarity and stability.

    Psalm 1 describes the person who delights in God’s Word as a tree planted beside streams of water, producing fruit in every season.

    -Truth shapes perspective.
    -Wisdom informs choices.
    -Promises steady the heart.

    Time in Scripture keeps faith grounded and aligned with God’s character.


    Obedience as Worship

    Spiritual roots deepen through everyday obedience.

    Forgiveness, generosity, humility, integrity, and trust are expressions of worship. These daily decisions quietly align the heart with Christ and strengthen faith beneath the surface.

    And growth often occurs through simple faithfulness.


    Gratitude That Cultivates Joy

    Thankfulness creates fertile soil for spiritual growth.

    Paul connects gratitude with rooted faith because a thankful heart remains receptive. Gratitude increases awareness of God’s faithfulness and nurtures joy that is anchored rather than circumstantial.

    This is where joy grows strong.

    Young boy gardening with his mother, hands covered in soil, illustrating growth, gratitude, and faith being cultivated together.

    Growing Through Challenging Seasons

    Every faith journey includes seasons of transition.

    Change, uncertainty, emotional fatigue, or pressure can make life feel unsettled. These moments often serve as opportunities for deeper growth.

    Trees develop stronger root systems during harsh conditions. Faith often matures similarly.

    What feels stretching may be strengthening more than you realize.


    How a Rooted Life Produces Lasting Joy

    Lasting joy flows from connection with Christ.

    Joy rooted in Him remains steady in uncertainty. Peace continues even when answers feel delayed. Hope holds firm regardless of circumstances.

    This kind of joy is not fragile.

    It is grounded in Jesus and sustained through a relationship with Him.

    A life rooted in Christ becomes a life where joy is free to grow.

    That is the heart behind letting joy loose.


    Reflection and Invitation

    Where do you sense God inviting you to grow deeper roots in this season? Share in the comments!

    Spiritual growth often begins with one quiet yes.

    Elizabeth Joy